What Are the Pros of Becoming a Surrogate Mom


The amount of people using surrogate mothers (otherwise known as gestational carriers or gestational surrogate moms) has increased significantly since 1999.

But, who are surrogate mothers? Deciding whether or not to become a surrogate mom is a difficult decision.

Let’s go through the pros and cons of becoming a surrogate mother so you can make a decision today.

The Pros of Becoming a Surrogate Mom

There are some huge benefits that can come with being a surrogate mom. Surrogacy can give you a connection, and help you provide a couple or person with the family they’ve been searching for.

Of course, the financial considerations are huge. Depending on where you are, there are some huge financial surrogate mom benefits that can come with being a surrogate mother. If you work with an agency, you may make even more money. That’s one reason you may want to become a surrogate today.

Of course, you may also be becoming a surrogate as a personal favor to a loved one, in which case you won’t be making bank off the situation.

However, you should still make sure that your medical care costs are covered before, during, and after the pregnancy.

If you’ve had previous pregnancies and enjoyed the experience, surrogacy is a chance for you to repeat it all over again.

The Cons of Becoming a Surrogate Mom

The number one thing you need to think about when becoming a surrogate mother is your physical health. If a pregnancy may risk your physical health, you should not consider becoming a surrogate mother.

The same is true of your mental health. If you struggle with previous mental health problems, or are prone to depression, becoming a surrogate mother may not be the best choice for your health needs. Surrogacy can be demanding on your body and on your emotions, so it’s important to think through what the possible issues could be for you to avoid any long-term issues.

And, surrogacy can take a long time. Pregnancy is nine months, but surrogacy also involves all the prep work for pregnancy and the aftermath. Getting pregnant for surrogacy can be a long process that can take months or even years, plus you’ll have to have different aspects of your health tested and checked before you even begin the process of trying to get pregnant.

You will have to take certain medications, which can be annoying and could also have side effects. And that’s not even considering the changes you’ll have to make to your lifestyle while being pregnant. You’ll have to recover after giving birth, too.

Now You Know the Pros and Cons of Becoming a Surrogate Mom

Hopefully, you now have some idea whether or not being a surrogate mom is right for you. Just take some, time, and think through all your options before you jump in the deep end with surrogacy.

Do you need more lifestyle and health information? Make sure you read some of the other articles on this website for more.

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LaDonna Dennis

LaDonna Dennis is the founder and creator of Mom Blog Society. She wears many hats. She is a Homemaker*Blogger*Crafter*Reader*Pinner*Friend*Animal Lover* Former writer of Frost Illustrated and, Cancer...SURVIVOR! LaDonna is happily married to the love of her life, the mother of 3 grown children and "Grams" to 3 grandchildren. She adores animals and has four furbabies: Makia ( a German Shepherd, whose mission in life is to be her attached to her hip) and Hachie, (an OCD Alaskan Malamute, and Akia (An Alaskan Malamute) who is just sweet as can be. And Sassy, a four-month-old German Shepherd who has quickly stolen her heart and become the most precious fur baby of all times. Aside from the humans in her life, LaDonna's fur babies are her world.

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