Asking For Help As A Parent Is Never Shameful


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Parenting is hard. Very hard, in fact. Arguably, one of the hardest things you could ever do. This is true even if your child is 100% healthy, developing at the appropriate rate, and well-behaved. Why? Well, becoming responsible for a brand new human being and somehow helping them become a maturing human being is, well, something you can never easily perform just because you’ve read advice for doing so.

That said, there’s this stigma against parents that suggests they should always be 100% in the right, knowing how to progress, and capable of navigating any issue, because they had the audacity to bring a child into the world to begin with. It’s true you do have responsibility, but you hardly have to apologize for needing some help, or asking for assistance. There’s no shame in it. The more you learn, the better off you are, and the better a parent you can be.

But what kind of help might you need, and how do you ask for it? Let’s consider that, below:

Help With Household Chores

Households are tough to run, which is why affordable cleaning services like Highland Park Housekeeping, – are so popular. In some cases, this can be a good way to manage a job and raising a family at the same time, alternatively, you can enlist the help of your children with an itemized list of their own chores to follow each day. A star reward system might inspire them to keep up on this, allowing them to redeem such good actions for points later on. 

Enlisting Family & Friends, Especially For Breaks

From time to time, it’s good to ask your family or friends to help you out. It might be that your neighbor, also with little children attending the same school, can share the carpooling duties with you on a daily basis. This might save hours from your week, and allow you to attend to your newborn more easily in the morning three days a week. Sometimes, you may need a break also, and so asking your parents to come and babysit your kids so you and a partner or friend can go for a meal once a month is a nice idea. It will help you feel much more refreshed.

Online Ordering & Subscriptions

It might be that you decide to switch up your daily hobbies to save time. For instance, setting up a rotating supermarket grocery order of the value items offered by the brand can save your fuel costs, your time, and also stock your shelves with basic, but still usable and tasty groceries. In the long run, this kind of online ordering approach can help you manage a careful and consistent approach to living, cutting away unnecessary time you can’t afford to spend here and there. With modern subscription models and the internet to help you, even for delivering pharmacy medications to your door, you get to alleviate some of the burden from your daily living.

With this advice, we hope you can see how asking or looking for help as a parent should never be shameful – because it isn’t.

About Author

LaDonna Dennis

LaDonna Dennis is the founder and creator of Mom Blog Society. She wears many hats. She is a Homemaker*Blogger*Crafter*Reader*Pinner*Friend*Animal Lover* Former writer of Frost Illustrated and, Cancer...SURVIVOR! LaDonna is happily married to the love of her life, the mother of 3 grown children and "Grams" to 3 grandchildren. She adores animals and has four furbabies: Makia ( a German Shepherd, whose mission in life is to be her attached to her hip) and Hachie, (an OCD Alaskan Malamute, and Akia (An Alaskan Malamute) who is just sweet as can be. And Sassy, a four-month-old German Shepherd who has quickly stolen her heart and become the most precious fur baby of all times. Aside from the humans in her life, LaDonna's fur babies are her world.

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