Putting Together A Co-Parenting Plan

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Co-parenting is a very modern solution to an age old problem: what happens to the kids after parents need to go their separate ways? It used to be that people found it hard to walk away from each other, but we no longer need to grapple with this. You can do what’s good for you, and find peace at the natural end of a relationship, rather than trying to force something more to come out of it. 

And that’s good, both for you and your kids, because you can make a much better environment out of the situation! However, putting together a parenting plan can feel very tricky to do. After a separation or a divorce, there’s going to be a lot of pressure on the two of you as a couple to keep things stable for your kids. So, what do you need to do?

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Have a Mediator

A mediator makes sure that both you and the other parent find a middle ground, and end up more or less on the same page as each other. After all, you both want the same thing: the best for your kids, but to be able to talk to each other constructively and productively, sometimes someone else has to be there. 

Now, a mediator is usually a lawyer, such as spodek law group, that helps to put the plan in place and make sure it’s followed. After all, it’s a legal proceeding, and a professional will lay out your rights as a parent, and it’s essential to get this in writing ahead of time. 

Think of Your Children

Following on from this point, you’re going to have to think about your kids at all times, and what’s right and wrong for them. It’s easy to get caught up in an argument, and refuse to give way to the other parent, because you’re upset or think you’re the only one in the right. However, this will get the two of you nowhere, and it certainly won’t help your family. 

You need to come up with an effective schedule, allowing you an equal amount of time with the kids, because that’s what they really deserve. You need to put together an expenses plan – who is going to pay for what and when? What happens if either of you gets a new partner? All in all, only open and honest and effective communication is going to reach an agreement on these key things. 

Commit to the Plan

Once you’ve come up with a plan, you’re going to need to commit to it. No little changes here and there that weren’t agreed – if something isn’t working, you can call another meeting and ask for official changes to be made. Don’t let any petty grievances get in the way of giving your kids what you need, by simply allowing both parents to be there.

Putting together a co-parenting plan can be straightforward. Make sure you’re always doing what’s best for your little ones. 

About Author

LaDonna Dennis

LaDonna Dennis is the founder and creator of Mom Blog Society. She wears many hats. She is a Homemaker*Blogger*Crafter*Reader*Pinner*Friend*Animal Lover* Former writer of Frost Illustrated and, Cancer...SURVIVOR! LaDonna is happily married to the love of her life, the mother of 3 grown children and "Grams" to 3 grandchildren. She adores animals and has four furbabies: Makia ( a German Shepherd, whose mission in life is to be her attached to her hip) and Hachie, (an OCD Alaskan Malamute, and Akia (An Alaskan Malamute) who is just sweet as can be. And Sassy, a four-month-old German Shepherd who has quickly stolen her heart and become the most precious fur baby of all times. Aside from the humans in her life, LaDonna's fur babies are her world.

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