Deciding Whether Fostering is the Long-Term Calling for You


If you are considering becoming a foster carer, it is only natural to wonder if opening your heart and home to a child in need of care will be manageable long-term. Fostering is an enormous commitment, but it can also be incredibly rewarding. As you weigh up the decision, reflect deeply on what motivates you, determine if you can make fostering a priority, and honestly evaluate your ability to cope with challenges. With an open mind and compassionate support, you can decide if fostering is truly your lifelong calling.

What Drives Your Desire to Foster

Your reasons for wanting to foster reveal much about whether or not you are suited for this caring role long-term. Those motivated mainly by wanting to “rescue” a child may struggle with the realities of trauma and behaviours exhibited by children in foster care. If you hope to foster as a path to adoption, you must accept that the end goal of most placements is reunification with birth families or relatives. And if you primarily see fostering as a way to earn additional income, the modest allowances likely won’t balance out the demands. With an open heart and no fixed expectations, you are more likely to find meaning in this work for years to come.

Making Fostering a Priority

Fostering requires major lifestyle adjustments that you must be willing to sustain. The needs of foster children necessitate great time and dedication, often involving frequent meetings and visits relating to their care plan. Training courses and support groups offered by agencies like also steepen the learning curve of new foster carers. During a child’s transition into your home, it is especially vital to be consistently present as their primary source of stability. Take a thoughtful look at your current responsibilities and see whether you can devote enough care and attention to a young person who has faced trauma and upheaval.   

Coping with the Responsibilities

Let’s face it – fostering can be emotionally and physically draining, no matter how rewarding. Children enter care after experiencing some degree of adversity, so struggles are inevitable. You may pour tireless effort into nurturing a child only to see them move to a new home. The gradual process of building trust can test your patience. Witnessing the effects of a young person’s past troubles or unsettling behaviours can be worrying. And the responsibilities of fostering can seem relentless at times.  

That said, an unflappable reserve of resilience isn’t required – just a willingness to care for yourself so you can sustainably care for others. Maintain perspective by confiding in trusted friends about challenges as they arise. Make time for your needs and interests so you don’t burn out. If you commit to reflection, seek support when needed, and renew your dedication periodically, then the trials of fostering won’t ever outweigh the joys.

In the end, only you can decide if opening your home long-term is the right path. Fostering brings purpose and fulfilment to those with patience, compassion and acceptance of both joy and hardship. As long as you set realistic expectations, care for yourself and prepare for challenges with an open heart, you’ll know whether this special calling is meant for you.

About Author

LaDonna Dennis

LaDonna Dennis is the founder and creator of Mom Blog Society. She wears many hats. She is a Homemaker*Blogger*Crafter*Reader*Pinner*Friend*Animal Lover* Former writer of Frost Illustrated and, Cancer...SURVIVOR! LaDonna is happily married to the love of her life, the mother of 3 grown children and "Grams" to 3 grandchildren. She adores animals and has four furbabies: Makia ( a German Shepherd, whose mission in life is to be her attached to her hip) and Hachie, (an OCD Alaskan Malamute, and Akia (An Alaskan Malamute) who is just sweet as can be. And Sassy, a four-month-old German Shepherd who has quickly stolen her heart and become the most precious fur baby of all times. Aside from the humans in her life, LaDonna's fur babies are her world.

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