Wedding Planning Advice and Tips for Your Big Day


If you’re like 66% of millennials, you planned part of your wedding before even getting engaged.

There’s nothing wrong with that at all. Your wedding day is one of the most significant milestones in your life. 

But science has proven that planning your wedding is a stressful task. Eighty-six percent of couples have symptoms like breakouts and loss of sex drive while wedding planning.

It doesn’t have to be that difficult. Keep reading for the best wedding planning advice to keep you sane and your day beautiful. 

Get Organized

One of the most useful wedding planning essentials you’ll need is a notebook. Or, if you’re tech-savvy, Google Docs. You’re going to need to track expenses and keep all your wedding ideas in one place. 

Add Personalized Touches

Weddings decor has come a long way from traditional cake toppers and rose bowl centerpieces. Brides and grooms want to make their wedding a reflection of who they are individually and as a couple. 

One of our top wedding planning tips is to add a personalized flair to everything. Laura Damiano Designs shares that the wedding invitations are the first things your guests see, and this can really help set the stage for the overall theme and ambience of the wedding.

Is your husband-to-be a huge comic book nerd? Acknowledge that by having boutonnieres made out of comic pages. 

Perhaps you have pipes to rival Whitney Houston. Wouldn’t serenading your new husband be a romantic gesture at the reception?

Not into high heels and dress shoes? Have your man rock something from the Givenchy men sneaker collection. And maybe you’ll feel more comfortable in Chucks than heels.

The bottom line is that weddings aren’t the stuffy cookie-cutter affairs they once were. Feel free to add your personal touches everywhere you see fit. 

Don’t Spend What You Can’t Afford

It should go without saying, but don’t rack up wedding bills you can’t pay. Just because the average wedding costs $30,000 doesn’t mean yours has to. You can still plan the perfect wedding on a tight budget; you’ll only need to get creative. 

Ask friends and family to help fill key wedding day roles. Your aunt who moonlights as a photograph could take your photos. His cousin who bakes killer cakes can make your wedding cupcakes. 

One of our favorite tips for brides is to visit bridal shops when they have sample sales. You can find discounts on beautiful dresses when shops are trying to clear out inventory. Thoroughly inspect the gown for tears or stains before buying it, though.

You should reconsider whether having plus ones is realistic for your budget. It’s nice to feel that you’ve included everyone. But does your cousin’s boyfriend of two weeks really need to be at your wedding? 

Savor the Moment

Though you’ve spent a lifetime dreaming of your wedding day, the actual day itself is going to fly by. Be sure to take a moment alone with your new spouse to appreciate the beauty of your wedding. It’s a very special moment to look around the room and realize everyone is there because you fell in love.

Put Our Wedding Planning Advice Into Action

Our wedding planning tips and tricks are sure to help you avoid becoming a Bridezilla. Sure, planning the biggest day of your life is bound to be stressful. But with our wedding planning advice, you’ll be ready to face that stress head-on.

Check out our DIY section for wedding crafts you can do at home.

About Author

LaDonna Dennis

LaDonna Dennis is the founder and creator of Mom Blog Society. She wears many hats. She is a Homemaker*Blogger*Crafter*Reader*Pinner*Friend*Animal Lover* Former writer of Frost Illustrated and, Cancer...SURVIVOR! LaDonna is happily married to the love of her life, the mother of 3 grown children and "Grams" to 3 grandchildren. She adores animals and has four furbabies: Makia ( a German Shepherd, whose mission in life is to be her attached to her hip) and Hachie, (an OCD Alaskan Malamute, and Akia (An Alaskan Malamute) who is just sweet as can be. And Sassy, a four-month-old German Shepherd who has quickly stolen her heart and become the most precious fur baby of all times. Aside from the humans in her life, LaDonna's fur babies are her world.

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Erica Campbell
3 years ago

Excellent recommendations, thank you! I agree with you that a wedding should not be overly expensive. The most important thing is to plan your wedding in a great place with great people around. It seems to me that you can also hire a specialist who will help you implement your ideas within your budget