Parenting After Divorce: 5 Key Tips for Co-Parenting After Divorce


There’s nothing pleasant about divorce. Even if the end of your marriage is mutually desirable, the emotions involved are often still very difficult.

Parenting after divorce can be one of the biggest challenges you’ll face. After all, there are a million decisions to be made, and both parents will have to cooperate in order to make the process as painless as possible.

This article takes a look at some important successful co parenting strategies. Keep reading to learn ways that can help take a lot of the sting out of parenting following a difficult divorce.

1. Make an Effort to Communicate

Most people aren’t good communicators. This is especially true when two people have ended their marriage. You now live separate lives, and there’s typically a certain amount of tension making it hard to listen to each other.

And yet making an effort to communicate for the sake of the kids can make life much more bearable. After all, you’re going to continue to be in each other’s lives for years to come, so why not strive to get along rather than remain antagonistic.

2. Don’t Expect the Ex to Change

It’s human nature to want other people to change. Being divorced is no different. The desire for your ex to change or behave to your satisfaction can be intense.

And yet your life will be more pleasant when you are able to accept the fact that people typically never change. They will always be the person they’ve always been. So the sooner you come to terms with this, the better.

3. Create a Shared Calendar

Both exes are going to have busy lives with complicated schedules. Nothing is going to slow down just because you’re now divorced. Thus it’s important to keep in mind that your schedules are going to clash from time to time.

Good coparenting means working together to create a shared calendar so that you can each see at a glance what the other has planned and plan your own life accordingly. This won’t eliminate all conflict, but it will certainly help.

4. Learn to Be Flexible

Resist the impulse to be stubborn with your ex. When your schedules clash, learn to work around each other, and to exercise a health amount of give-and-take. This will make life so much easier.

5. Always Put the Kids First

The point of all of this is to put your children’s needs ahead of your own. More often than not, divorce brings out the worst in people. But this isn’t healthy for your children.

Instead of trying to push each other’s buttons, show your kids that you love them more than you hate your ex. They’ll love you for it more than you’ll ever know.

Important Tips for Parenting After Divorce

No one goes into marriage planning for it to end. Unfortunately, divorce is a part of life for many people. Parenting after divorce is crucial for making sure your kids feel loved and secure.

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LaDonna Dennis

LaDonna Dennis is the founder and creator of Mom Blog Society. She wears many hats. She is a Homemaker*Blogger*Crafter*Reader*Pinner*Friend*Animal Lover* Former writer of Frost Illustrated and, Cancer...SURVIVOR! LaDonna is happily married to the love of her life, the mother of 3 grown children and "Grams" to 3 grandchildren. She adores animals and has four furbabies: Makia ( a German Shepherd, whose mission in life is to be her attached to her hip) and Hachie, (an OCD Alaskan Malamute, and Akia (An Alaskan Malamute) who is just sweet as can be. And Sassy, a four-month-old German Shepherd who has quickly stolen her heart and become the most precious fur baby of all times. Aside from the humans in her life, LaDonna's fur babies are her world.

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4 years ago

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James Morgan
James Morgan
4 years ago

You have to understand that even if you’re not in marriage anymore, you’re still a father or a mother of ayour child, and you have to work together with your ex to productively parent your children. I know that after the dissolution of marriage co-parenting might be quite a challenge, but you must try

4 years ago

Great advises. I’m sure it’s not easy, but very important to keep good relations after divorce.

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