Why “Me Time” Is So Important As a Mother


As much as you plan ahead of time, you won’t always be 100% prepared for parenthood. As soon as you become a mother it’s no longer about you. Suddenly, everything seems to revolve around your little one. While there’s nothing wrong with this it’s important to take some time to yourself occasionally.

Don’t forget about rewarding yourself with some “me time” after you become a mother – you deserve it and it’s good for your health. Many moms feel guilty for going to the salon or taking some time out of their day to do something they enjoy. Don’t! You are taking 1-2 hours of your day to recharge. Going for a walk, reading a book while sipping wine, or spending time with your girlfriends is a great way to de-stress and unwind. This is a way to take care of yourself and your little one.

Think of this as an investment in yourself and your family. We guarantee you’ll notice the results in no time. Forgetting about the importance of “me time” can be very unhealthy and finding a balance between taking care of your children, work, completing household chores, etc. is not easy – but it is possible!

Get A Makeover

Yes, we know that it’s probably been a while since you’ve stepped foot in a salon. Treat yourself to a new hairstyle or a pedicure. We promise you will feel better, more confident, and return to your little one relaxed and re-charged. This is one of the best ways to enjoy some time to yourself.

We know that some of our busy moms are also beauty professionals as this is a great way for some side income. If this happens to be the case, we suggest you look into the best salon and spa software currently trending to take your business to the next level!

Mothers should wear a cape for everything they do for their families – they are hardworking, loving, and there’s no limit to what they won’t do for their families. To lighten the workload always be open-minded to things that may lessen your workload (work smarter, not harder)!

Go Out With The Girls

Want to start implementing some time to yourself but don’t know where to start? Every mother has been here. Simply find a sitter (spouse or relative) and take a few hours to do something you want to do.

Girl talk, for instance, is a great way to de-stress. Perhaps grab some brunch, get a manicure together, or go shopping. These are all great ways to get your mind of your everyday routine and return home refreshed and energized.

How To Make Time For Yourself

How do you expect to give 100% to your family when you’re not in the right state of mind? Taking time off re-energizes you and helps you make better decisions. Not having time to do something for you is an excuse. Begin by asking your partner or family to watch the kids while you go shop around or do something that refreshes you. Perhaps you want to have some girl time with your friends or go to a spa.

If your spouse is working, or you’re a single parent, consider asking grandma or grandpa. We’re sure they won’t mind watching their grandbaby for a couple hours – especially if this means you going out and doing something you love. The little things you do for yourself will help you become happier, healthier, and better parents.

Don’t throw out the idea of “me time”. Every mother needs it.

What are some of your favorite ways to relax and de-stress? Any tips you would give busy mothers like yourself? We’d love to hear about them in the comment section below!

About Author

LaDonna Dennis

LaDonna Dennis is the founder and creator of Mom Blog Society. She wears many hats. She is a Homemaker*Blogger*Crafter*Reader*Pinner*Friend*Animal Lover* Former writer of Frost Illustrated and, Cancer...SURVIVOR! LaDonna is happily married to the love of her life, the mother of 3 grown children and "Grams" to 3 grandchildren. She adores animals and has four furbabies: Makia ( a German Shepherd, whose mission in life is to be her attached to her hip) and Hachie, (an OCD Alaskan Malamute, and Akia (An Alaskan Malamute) who is just sweet as can be. And Sassy, a four-month-old German Shepherd who has quickly stolen her heart and become the most precious fur baby of all times. Aside from the humans in her life, LaDonna's fur babies are her world.

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